Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Hello? Who's That?

Write about nicknames you have been called throughout your life. Who called you what? How did the names make you feel, and why? If you never had a nickname, did you ever want one? Do you have nicknames for yourself in your interior speech? What is in a name? [Note: This is a surprisingly apt writing prompt, for I spent the majority of my Thanksgiving break trying to create a nickname for myself that my little sister could call me.]

Nicknames are strange and peculiar things. I'm quite fond of my full name, though it itself takes several different forms. I have my full legal name, which most people know me by, but I also have my Russian name, under which I was baptized and what my father will call me when he introduces me to people in Russian. From both of these names, a wide variety of nicknames have sprung.

At the beginning of fourth grade, a friend of mine decided that calling me 'Jennifer' was far too long, and that he was going to call me 'Jenny.' From there, the name stuck (thanks in part to his determination in convincing my teachers to call me that), and I was 'Jenny' throughout middle school and high school. My older friends would often be slightly confused when talking to my high school friends, the references to 'Jennifer' and 'Jenny' befuddling both parties. I, for one, did not really care (once I got past my initial objections), and would, depending on who was around, refer to myself or introduce myself as both 'Jennifer' and 'Jenny.' My friends would of course alter what they call me, giving me nicknames such as 'Jenny-bean' and other bizarre variations of my name. The interesting thing is, once I got to university, the name 'Jenn' was given to me. A few of my friends would call me 'Jenn' in short, but it never really stuck with anyone besides my older brother. Yet, I arrive at university and everyone begins to call me 'Jenn.' I really don't remember how this began, or who started it, but I find this highly amusing.

One of my favourite nicknames is the one that my brother's fiancee gave me. She calls me 'Sisterfer,' a combination of 'Jennifer' and 'sister.' Then again, she's also the Nicknaming Queen.

My mother has a wide variety of nicknames for me, the majority of them given to me when I was a little girl and often to annoy her own mother. She is the only person that will call me these names, and they are the only ones that are not some derivative of 'Jennifer' or 'Yevgenia.'

I am one of those people who will create online names for myself that are similar to my actual name - indeed, this own title is a conglomeration of my full name, Jenn S., A.

The amusing thing is, I respond to both of my sisters' names, and along with the names of several of my close friends. I also get 'Jessica' quite a bit as well, for some reason.

I'm really bad at assigning nicknames to myself or other people. I have a tendence to call people by generic nicknames such as "babe," but whenever people ask what to call me, I'm never quite sure what to answer.

-J

4 comments:

Roland L. said...

For the record, Jenn, I totally started the Jenn thing :D
remember diversity training? :P
Sisterfer...that's interesenting...does that make you friennifer?

Christina said...

I like Friennifer! What did you come up w for your sister and what is your full Russian name. The reader wants to know!

ali stocks said...

jennyjennjennjenn!!!!!!! i think everyone should have super long repetitive names. YES.

I thought calling you Jenn was more of a mutual thing... but it Roland wants to claim it, fine. I only started calling you Jenn because you introduced yourself as Jennifer and that's so LONG and doesn't ROLL off the tongue like JENNYJENNJENNJENN or Jenn ETC. That's not fair. You could've told me to call you Jenny, because that didn't really come to mind.

Then again, it might be better to call you Jenny because I keep getting you mixed up with my big sibb and it's so frustraaaaating.

Jennessa said...

I like Friennifer as well. *laughs*

I came to university intending not to be called 'Jenny,' though if you would like to, I have no problems with that.

For those who are interested, my full name in Russian is Yevgeniya Alexandrovna (Евгения Александровна), often shorted to Zhenya (Женя). Yevgeniya is the closest saint's name to Jennifer, and therefore closest Russian equivalent, and Alexandrovna is my patronymic, meaning "Daughter of Alexander"